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Aren't these movies romantic?

Posted: Tuesday, September 23, 2008 6:30 AM by Paige Newman
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There’s a difference between a chick flick and a romantic movie. A really good romantic movie transcends that label. This week Richard Gere and Diane Lane star together in the Nicolas Sparks’ adaptation, “Nights of Rodanthe.” And while my hopes aren’t high that that film will be able to break through the “chick flick” barrier, it does bring to mind a few films that do.


Jack Lemmon and Shirley McClaine find love in "The Apartment."
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"The Apartment": The late great Billy Wilder directed this story of an office drone (Jack Lemmon) who lets the guys use his apartment for their romantic rendezvous, but gets jealous (and realizes what he’s doing isn’t quite kosher) when his boss (Fred MacMurray) wants to bring the woman (Shirley MacLaine) Lemmon has a crush on to the apartment. It’s the moment at the end of the film that always gets me. Instead of declaring that he loves her, Lemmon simply says, “I absolutely adore you.” To which a smiling MacLaine replies, “Shut up and deal.” It’s the perfect moment for these two as the audience realizes they are actually beginning a life together. (You really should watch the whole movie, but here's the ending: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfDwuv2_9dQ&feature=related.)

"The Year of Living Dangerously":  Mel Gibson stars as an Australian reporter in Indonesia and Sigourney Weaver is the British diplomat who he falls in love with and betrays in order to get a great story. Somewhat like “Casablanca,” this film has that “the problems of two little people aren’t worth a hill of beans” feel that makes their romance feel riskier and more passionate. There’s a moment when they go to have a drink together and it begins to pour rain and the two of them run to the car. They’re wet and holding these brightly colored green cocktails and they can’t stop laughing. And yet even in this moment of pure joy, you can already feel the end in their beginning, which makes it that much more tragic and lovely.

"Truly Madly Deeply": Talk about doomed love. This film came out around the same time as “Ghost,” and is generally the same idea, only about 100 times better. Anthony Minghella directed this story of a woman (Juliet Stevenson) who has such a hard time getting over the death of her true love (Alan Rickman, doing some of his best work) that the depth of her need for him actually makes his ghost appear for her. Except she can touch and feel him (though, he is a bit cold). My favorite moment is when the two of them begin to sing and play The Walker Brothers' “The Sun Ain't Gonna Shine Anymore,” and Stevenson’s character is tangibly giddy with love and relief. And though this film is ultimately about letting go and moving on, you never stop feeling the depth of the love these two feel. (You can watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZ52td1GMT0&feature=related.)

Those are just three small examples. Are there movies that you think transcend the “chick flick” label to become the perfect romance? Or perhaps the “chick flick” label doesn’t bother you. Tell us about your favorite romantic movies.

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"Life Is Beautiful" concerns so much more than romance, but in the end, it really is about what Guido is capable of doing to protect his two true loves, his wife and his son. Who can watch it without being simultaneously heartbroken and uplifted?
Daniel Day Lewis and Madeline Stowe in Last of the Mohicans was one that kind of swept me away.  In the scene where he must leave the fort and they have to separate, he looks at her and says, "I will find you, I WILL find you." My heart almost fell out of my chest.
Out of Africa
One of my favorite romantic movies is "The Way we Were."  The goodbye scene at the end has me sobbing every time I see the movie.
The Notebook...I watched it as a grown woman with my mom and dad. Not many times have I seen my dad in a tender light, but knowing that a 'chick flick' brought that out in him brings the movie past the typical in that genre and makes it a truly great film about romance, life and everything in between.
Casablanca still does it for me.  Especially the "If that plane leaves the ground and you're not with him, you'll regret it" speech.  Total classic.
Spot on, Amanda!!!

Life is Beautiful is one of my most favorite films.
The Bodyguard - Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston
My all-time favorite movie is "La Vita e Bella" (Life is Beautiful). This movie is honestly one of the most romantic movies ever made, and the hauntingly lovely score couldn't be more perfect. This movie is wonderful for how it creates comedy out of tragedy, and how both cement the love story of Guido and Dora, and the love they have for their son Giosue. The emotion in this movie is so powerful that many viewers have their heart broken by the outcome of the film, and hesitate to see the film again because of it. This movie is definitely not a chick flick, and is loved by people of all genders and cultures.

Another great romance to add to the list is "The Princess Bride." This film escalates above the chick flick genre due to its extreme satrical elements. (The casting of Andre the Giant adds major testosterone appeal as well.) The movie at its heart is very romantic, but not in a saccharine kind of way, which makes it fun to watch. The happy ending is also a nice touch considering many of the greatest romantic films lack that (i.e. Life is Beautiful)

I also have to give another foreign shout-out to "Amelie." This quirky movie is romantic in unexpected ways as it matches two soulmates together through unconvential means. Amelie, like Life is Beautiful, is a prime example of a romance that men enjoy watching, which says a lot because they both have subtitles.
Bridges of Madison County - No matter how many times I see it, my heart feels like it's tearing apart when Clint Eastwood is at the stoplight and waiting for Meryl Streep to ride away with him.
Say Anything...not just the best teenage romance ever but one of the most romantic movies of all time..."I gave her my heart and she gave me a pen" still makes me sad.
Hello???? TITANIC.
Before Sunset
dont forget Gone with the Wind!
The best for me any day is the newest Pride and Prejudice.
Love Story...In my mind the movie ends after they get done playing in the snow so they get to live happily ever after!!
"A Room With A View".  It's not only romantic but is really about a deep chemical attraction between two young people that crosses class boundaries, all delivered with a very Victorian viewpoint and not one hint of nudity.  Okay, except for the full frontal of Julian Sands and company you get in the skinny dip scene...which has nothing to do with the romance, but is totally hilarious.
Wow...I can't believe you mentioned "Truly, Madly, Deeply".  That little gem is one of my all-time favorite movies!!!  I also like "Cousins", the one with Ten Danson of all people.  And, like the others, I like "The Notebook" and "Bridges of Madison County" as well.  But "TMD" really takes the cake in terms of raw emotional power.  And you're right, Alan Rickman is excellent here.
Ditto on "Life is Beautiful."  That scene where Guido hijacks the PA system and plays a record for la principessa is arguably the most romantic movie moment ever!
The Ghost and Mrs. Muir
Love Actually - because it explores many kinds and focuses of love - not just romantic love.  

Love is all around.
Last of the Mohicans is one of my all time faves.  The best romantic scene for me was toward the beginning when he saves her during the ambush.  He's running and killing people with that machete to save her.  Awesome.  And the "No matter how far, I WILL FIND YOU" makes me melt every time
Notorious with Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman.  The scene where he sits on the bench, smoking, all day while waiting for her to appear, her line "Tell me you love me, it keeps me awake," plus the scene in the wine cellar.  Cary Grant may have played more suave in other films and Casablanca is my all time favorite movie, but the way Ingrid Bergman and Cary Grant play that relationship... What could be more romantic?
"Titantic" - a momentary rebellious fling "The Bridges of Madison County?" - an adulterous affair that lasted what 2-3 days? Yecckk!  these are not lasting love, what is really romantic is lasting love.
Now, "Life is Beautiful" and "The Notebook" I agree with. In "The Notebook", the husband still loves after all those years and even with her Alzheimer's."The Way We Were" -yes, they still loved each other, but knew they couldn't live together.
"An Affair to Remember" with Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr. The remake with Warren Beatty and Annette Bening was very good, too, but the first was wonderful.
Wuthering Heights and What Dreams May Come
One of my all time favorites is "Mrs. Soffel" with Mel Gibson and Diane Keaton.  She is the warden's wife, Gibson is a prisoner she helps escape...he won't leave without her..Wow  Takes place around 1900 in Philadelphia..true story.
Small correction, Jamie and Nina are NOT married in "Truly Madly Deeply." Much like Alan Rickman and his true life love, Rima Horton.  
My favorite would be the "Graduate" funny, entertaining and an ending with a feeling
An Officer and a Gentleman ranks as one of my favorites. The ending still makes me cry, well at least when I'm watching it alone :)
Ditto to "Love Actually" and "The Princess Bride"...these two are actually some of the most popular movies with many men I know.
My favorite is "The Notebook".This movie is unforgettable and it will keep you sobbing everytime.A tale of love that would never fade.
Sorry, Ilah, but I disagree about "Bridges".  I think that's one of the most romantic things that could happen to a person.  A chance meeting with this beautiful stranger, who opens up a floodgate of emotions that you have probably thought about but never had? I believe it ended the way it was meant to (by the way, I didn't see the movie but read the book), and they ultimately went back to their pre-affair lives.  But, oh boy, the romance!!
"Love Actually" has to be one of the best romantic movies in my opinion. It explores all types of love bridging the gaps of age, language, and distance.
lisa-

Oh yes, Say Anything. Every girl I know that came of age during the 80s wanted to grow up and marry Lloyd Dauber.
"A walk to remember".
Megan, glad to see someone else is on the Mohican bandwagon. There is a reason Daniel Day Lewis is one of the greatest actors of our time.  He smolders in this movie and it is awesome!!  I also was so spellbound by the fight scene near the end (when the sister chooses "the end that she chooses" to be with the man who saved her)it took my breath away and I started crying without sobbing, just the tears.  That to me, is an emotional response. That is what few movies can do for you these days.
I always loved the way Nicholas Cage looked at Meg Ryan in City of Angels.
The best romantic movie in my mind would be "The American President" with Michael Douglas and Annette Bening.  Great story of an impossible romance becoming possible!
"Reds", directed by and starring Warren Beatty along with Diante Keaton, Jack Nicholson, Maureen Stapleton (Oscar for Best Supporting Actress), Gene Hackman, Edward Hermann....Rent it or look up the train station scene on YouTube. I've seen this movie probably a dozen times (which means, since it's over 3 hours long, that I've spent the equivalent of a couple of days watching) and that scene still gives me chills.
I agree with many of the ones already listed, but would add "Moulin Rouge" to the list.  If you survive the crazy psychidelic first 30 minutes the love story that unfolds is worth every second.  I don't often cry at movies, but I bawl at the end of this one every time.
Hello -- The Way We Were!!!!
"Roman Holiday" - Audrey Hepburn, Gregory Peck, a day frolicking in Rome, a romance that can never be...aaahhh!  :-)
I love the Princess Bride and the Notebook...I really didnt like The Last of the Mohicans, I agree with the romance in Bridges of Madison County. How does everyone feel about Keanu Reeves in A Walk in the Clouds...
Amanda, I'm posting anonymously because "Life is Beautiful" chokes me up just thinking about it.  I'm a man and a father.  No man/father can watch that movie without crying.
I'm chiming in with votes for Love Actually and Princess Bride.  Love Actually makes me cry every time I watch it; at its core it is hopeful, and not only is Princess Bride a romance between Buttercup and Wesley, but about a man and his love for his grandson.

Totally agree about both Life is Beautiful and Love Actually. They definitely transcend the category.
I agree with most of the above.  Last of the Mohicans, Life is Beautiful, Titanic, etc. but the first romantic movie that I can remember seeing in my teens was Duel in the Sun with Gregory Peck, Jennifer Jones and Joseph Cotton. It was an Epic Western where two brothers are both in love with the half breed indian girl -- of course she'd be better off with the good son but loves the bad boy.   Yes, it's cheesy by today's standards but the final duel still get's me everytime. Spoiler alert.. Pearl and Lute die in each other's arms up at Squaw's Head Rock
So many favorites mentioned here -- Say Anything (John Cusack is a personal favorite!!), A Walk in the Clouds, The American President, oh, and the updated Sabrina with Harrison Ford!!
One correction, the original movie was Love Affair, 1939 starring Charles Boyer and Irene Dunne, also directed by Leo McCarey who directed the 1957 remake with Cary Grant and Debra Kerr


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