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Aren't these movies romantic?

Posted: Tuesday, September 23, 2008 6:30 AM by Paige Newman
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There’s a difference between a chick flick and a romantic movie. A really good romantic movie transcends that label. This week Richard Gere and Diane Lane star together in the Nicolas Sparks’ adaptation, “Nights of Rodanthe.” And while my hopes aren’t high that that film will be able to break through the “chick flick” barrier, it does bring to mind a few films that do.


Jack Lemmon and Shirley McClaine find love in "The Apartment."
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"The Apartment": The late great Billy Wilder directed this story of an office drone (Jack Lemmon) who lets the guys use his apartment for their romantic rendezvous, but gets jealous (and realizes what he’s doing isn’t quite kosher) when his boss (Fred MacMurray) wants to bring the woman (Shirley MacLaine) Lemmon has a crush on to the apartment. It’s the moment at the end of the film that always gets me. Instead of declaring that he loves her, Lemmon simply says, “I absolutely adore you.” To which a smiling MacLaine replies, “Shut up and deal.” It’s the perfect moment for these two as the audience realizes they are actually beginning a life together. (You really should watch the whole movie, but here's the ending: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfDwuv2_9dQ&feature=related.)

"The Year of Living Dangerously":  Mel Gibson stars as an Australian reporter in Indonesia and Sigourney Weaver is the British diplomat who he falls in love with and betrays in order to get a great story. Somewhat like “Casablanca,” this film has that “the problems of two little people aren’t worth a hill of beans” feel that makes their romance feel riskier and more passionate. There’s a moment when they go to have a drink together and it begins to pour rain and the two of them run to the car. They’re wet and holding these brightly colored green cocktails and they can’t stop laughing. And yet even in this moment of pure joy, you can already feel the end in their beginning, which makes it that much more tragic and lovely.

"Truly Madly Deeply": Talk about doomed love. This film came out around the same time as “Ghost,” and is generally the same idea, only about 100 times better. Anthony Minghella directed this story of a woman (Juliet Stevenson) who has such a hard time getting over the death of her true love (Alan Rickman, doing some of his best work) that the depth of her need for him actually makes his ghost appear for her. Except she can touch and feel him (though, he is a bit cold). My favorite moment is when the two of them begin to sing and play The Walker Brothers' “The Sun Ain't Gonna Shine Anymore,” and Stevenson’s character is tangibly giddy with love and relief. And though this film is ultimately about letting go and moving on, you never stop feeling the depth of the love these two feel. (You can watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZ52td1GMT0&feature=related.)

Those are just three small examples. Are there movies that you think transcend the “chick flick” label to become the perfect romance? Or perhaps the “chick flick” label doesn’t bother you. Tell us about your favorite romantic movies.

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most romantic AND doomed:  La Strada with Anthony Quinn and Giulietta Masina, (Fellini) about love that uses and gives, love that bends and breaks us.

and all time best, Wuthering Heights with Lawrence Olivier... "Haunt me Cathy!"  
Now Voyager.  Bette Davis, Paul Henreid, Claude Rains 1942. It speaks to everything in my life.
Love Actually-the little boy experiencing his first love when his dad comes to grips with the death of his wife. Very moving. But, The Notebook is my favorite. Looking forward to Nights in Rodanthe-LOVED the book.
Love Actually, truly one of the best, not everyone has a happily ever after but the portrayal of real life is moving to watch
I have to agree with most of the films here, but Love Actually, A Walk in the Clouds and the original Sabrina are three I can get my husband to watch with me!  Add to that the poorly named 10 Things I Hate About You with Julia Stiles and Heath Ledger.  Cute, and very romantic.  And in the way back machine I still love to watch Nicolas Cage in Valley Girl!
Portrait of Jennie and Same Time Next Year
My favorite movie remains "Ghost".  That lovely "Unchained Melody" music, the doomed romance, the fight to contact your love and prevent disaster.  I just love the movie.  Plus, the final scene never fails to choke me up.
The Village....when Joaquin Phoenix and Bryce Dallas Howard are sitting on the porch in the middle of the night and he tells her about the only time he feels fear. I just fall in love with him during this movie and when he says, "Yes, I will dance with you at our wedding" I shudder!!!!!
Say what you will, but "Boy Culture" will always be the romantic movie that turns me to marshmallow at the end. Just try wiping the sappy grin off my face during the "jar of pennies" scene when it's revealed that X and Andrew are FINALLY a couple... so romantic, it makes me squeal like a little girl!
While not purely a romance, I think that "Shakespeare in Love" is very romantic and heartbreaking. I get goosebumps everytime I see the scene when Joseph Fiennes and Gwyneth Paltrow make eye contact at the dance....
Moonstruck, Brokeback Mountain, Lady and the Tramp, Beauty and the Beast, The Philadelphia Story, Ever After and (yes, I find it extremely sweet and romantic) The Wedding Singer!
Casablanca, hands down. How often do you see a movie where the hero loves the girl so much, he lets her go? My mom was born the year this movie came out, and I got *my* kid hooked on it! The casting, the script, that song! The great lines. Especially that scene where Rick (Bogart) is drunkenly remembering their time in Paris, while Sam plays "As Time Goes By" -
"Play it, Sam."
"Boss?"
"You played it for her, play it for me. If she can stand it, I can."

When he first sees Ilsa in the bar:
"Of all the gin joints, in all the towns, in all the world...she had to walk into mine."

That great speach he tells her at the airport, "If that plane leaves the ground and you're not on it, you'll regret it. Maybe not today, may not tomorrow. but soon, and for the rest of your life."

But my favorite line (and to this day, toast), "Here's lookin' at you, kid."
I agree with Life is Beautiful.  THe beginning is very romantic, and the ending . . .<sigh>

Woman of the Year, the first Tracy/Hepburn movie because you can see how smitten he is with her.  I like watching all of their early movies together (Without Love, too) because you can see they love each other.

Say Anything and Princess Bride are good picks because men like those too, so they appeal to everyone, not just "girls"

ALthough I'm a woman, I am not fond of very many "chick flicks" and I don't tend to like most of the romances mentioned above.
Casablanca, hands down. How often do you see a movie where the hero loves the girl so much, he lets her go? My mom was born the year this movie came out, and I got *my* kid hooked on it! The casting, the script, that song! The great lines. Especially that scene where Rick (Bogart) is drunkenly remembering their time in Paris, while Sam plays "As Time Goes By" -
"Play it, Sam."
"Boss?"
"You played it for her, play it for me. If she can stand it, I can."

When he first sees Ilsa in the bar:
"Of all the gin joints, in all the towns, in all the world...she had to walk into mine."

That great speach he tells her at the airport, "If that plane leaves the ground and you're not on it, you'll regret it. Maybe not today, may not tomorrow. but soon, and for the rest of your life."

But my favorite line (and to this day, toast), "Here's lookin' at you, kid."
Although it's not your classic romance movie, I have to add Witness to the list.
I just thought of a couple more.

The scene in Four Weddings and a Funeral where John Hannah as Matthew reads the poem at Gareth's funeral.  

Enemy at the Gates between Jude Law and Rachel Weisz's characters.

Pride and Prejudice, the BBC/A&E version with Colin Firth.

WALL-E, the cute little robot's faithful love towards Eva just really got to me.

and I can't believe I forgot Brokeback Mountain, because it was the first movie that popped in my head when I saw the title of the article!



I have to go along with the other Mohican fans.  And another favorite of mine is Foever Young, with Mel Gibson.  I have seen it sooooo many times and I always cry at the end.
I agree with a lot of what people are saying.  Also, add An Affair to Remember to the list.  It's a great old romance with Cary Grant.

And just for a reference, Jack Lemmon DOES say he loves Fran.  He first says, "I love you, Miss Kubelik," and she hesitates for a second before continuing to shuffle the cards.  Then he says, "Did you hear me?  I absolutely adore you."  And then the famous line.

Just nitpicking, really - it's a FANTASTIC movie, SOOO romantic.
Rori -- thank you for mentioning the sister in Last of the Mohicans. The subtlety of the too-brief and canyon-deep connection between the sister of Madeleine Stowe's character and the 'brother' of Daniel Day-Lewis' character (sorry.. the names escape me!) is stunning. I found their story completely heart-wrenching.  It's the memory that stays with me from that film.
A Walk in the Clouds, Last of the Mohicans, Under the Tuscan Sun, and yes I'm showing my age, The Prisoner of Zenda with Steward Granger and the original Three Musketeers with Gene Kelly. Now they knew how to do romance right, AND without taking off a stitch of clothing. Talk about steaming up the car windows! Quick, where's my husband?!
A Walk in the Clouds is one of the two Keanu Reeves movies  I can stand (the other is the Lake House, which while not a classic, is awesome).  Say Anything is amazing, "A Walk to Remember" always starts the waterworks.  

PS I love you, while new, is an awesome love story.  Very, very sad, but amazing.  Only you w/ Robert Downey Jr and Marissa Tomei has always been one of my favorites.  Then there's Meg Ryan's movies, French Kiss, You've Got Mail, When Harry Met Sally.. love them all.

BUT I can not stand the notebook.  I don't really know why ( i think it has something to do with an ex-bf) but I hate that movie.  It's too much of a chick flick even for me.
How about a more recent love story?  Cameron Diaz and Ashton Kutcher in What Happens in Vegas.  Goodpairing and a great ending.
Pride and Prejudice, the 2005 version, is my fav at this time.  I am rarely swept away by romatic films, but I really loved this one.  I think it is because I read the book about 100 times as a lovestruck teen.
Always (1989) by Steven Speiburg.  Hands down a great romantic movie, but nowhere close to a chick flick.  I showed to my wife on our first date.  Funny, sad, suspenseful and visual stunning.  A truly moving film.  Seriously check this one out.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096794/
Last of the Mohicans, where they are in the waterfall, and the younger sister, Alice, looks over the falls, Hawkeye's brother, Uncas, leans over and grabs her and he holds her tight....not to mention their passings...WOW!!  Still gives me goosebumps thinking about the movie - period!


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